Match of the Month: Little Sister Alexa and Big Sister Shandani
Alexa and Shandani’s journey together began in the fall of 2019 when they were matched in the community-based program, and from the very start, their bond has only gotten stronger. Shandani has been an incredible mentor to Alexa, offering her support when the pressures of school and life feel overwhelming. Both Alexa and Shandani are high achievers, and while that drive is inspiring, it sometimes leads to stress. But Shandani has been there for Alexa, helping her navigate those tough moments and reminding her to take a step back and breathe.
The fun they have together is also a big part of their relationship. They love eating out, going shopping, and attending BBBS events like the recent Valentine’s Day celebration, where they spent time doing arts and crafts and decorating cookies. It was a day full of creativity and fun, and it’s just one of the many memories they’ve created together. Alexa says that the best part of having a Big Sister is simply spending time together—those moments of laughter and joy that they share. She especially values that Shandani is always there to listen, offer advice, and just be a source of positivity.
One of Alexa’s favorite memories with Shandani is from when she was in 6th grade, and they spent a fun day building gingerbread houses for Christmas. It’s those little moments that have made such a lasting impact on Alexa.
Shandani isn’t just a mentor to Alexa—she’s become part of her family. Alexa’s family warmly considers Shandani a close friend, and they even invited her to Alexa’s XV party to celebrate this special milestone in Alexa’s life. That invitation speaks volumes about the deep connection and trust they’ve built over the years.
A big part of their success also comes from the support they’ve received from Adriana, the Director of Mentoring. Adriana has been a key part of their journey, making sure they have all the resources and guidance they need to keep their relationship strong. Alexa and Shandani both agree that her support has been invaluable.
For Shandani, her experience with the program has been incredibly meaningful. “Throughout our time together, I’ve had the privilege of watching Alexa grow, overcome challenges, and achieve her goals. It’s been a lot of fun learning from her and growing together,” she says.
Alexa and Shandani’s match is a beautiful reminder of what mentorship is all about—building trust, offering support, and creating memories that will last a lifetime.
Match Support Specialist/Director of Site Based Mentoring
Adriana Hernandez Medel